Quoting PhoenixNTraining: 1) Remove myself from the situation, say I need a time out.
Quoting lostlove:this is probably the best thing to do.
Ok. I'll give that a shot.
Quoting lostlove: there is also another possible way to go about it...think of when you and your girlfriends would drink and one would have a little too much how would you treat her??? try to treat mom the same way.
Well, I'll have to ponder that. When my husband would get drunk, I'd do my darndest to seduce him...can't do that with my mom!