Quoting jethro: Any other revelations about 180s you could do to "engage" your H a bit more?
Ok...at this point, no, I don't really have any ideas.
You see, I see him so rarely and talk to him (lately) only when he calls. So, in that limited amount of time, I feel I should be as upbeat and positive and energetic as I can.
I've had my say as far as our relationship, and if I were to continue to talk about it, then I think it'd be perceived as more of the same and besides, talking isn't his favorite thing to do.
On the other hand, I've put in a request to my library for the 5 love languages book.
And I'm still reading here as much as I can.
Today, I went and found all of Lily's threads that I could and have them marked as favorites so that I can follow her journey.
I find it helpful to follow other's paths, rather than just bits and pieces.
Also, I'm trying to stick to being disciplined with my diet and my finances. I KNOW the better I look, the more attention he'll give me. And that will just boost my PMA. But mostly, I just want to FEEL good in my own body.
