Deb. This is a good small step. But girl, keep playing hard to get. Turns us guys on! You are doing fine. My situation is different as my wife has carrying some heavy mental health issues stemming from unhappiness with herself, low self esteem and a refusal to recognize that she is the fault of her situation not those around her. It may take a shock to her system, months or years to come to grips with it. I do love her and know that I must help her in her illness, but I am starting to think of myself and moving on. She thinks I am cruel. Let her. I hear you women like men who take a stand. Guess what? I am.
