Phoenix. You have a great point. That is something that is difficult for me to do. Stand back and let him do things in his own time.
I get afraid that if I don't 'remind' him that he'll 'forget' and not do it.
I need to stay focused on the idea that if he 'forgets' that's his choice. And I need to respect his right to make stupid choices. (Yes, I'm biased! )
To underscore your point, he hasn't called/emailed/contacted me in any way.
But I've had such a nice holiday with my brother and my niece that I still feel fulfilled.
Steph, this may also prove your point as well. He said the 'right' things when I was on the phone crying. But the lack of follow through shows that he wasn't sincere.
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