Phoenix in training: Reading your post i can feel how strong and admirable are you... I want to say you are doing great... and yes, focus on you and detach... and remember not to be over react and to maintain independent and distray when he may come looking you after that detach...!!... This MLC men really doesnt act, but react... and when they feel so sure about us, they beguin playing with their minds and us...!!... Although my h is at home, it havent beeen easy at all... this is a long way and we just try to keep ficusion on us, trying to get the better things from all this crisis for us...!! (excuse my english, im spanish).... Good luck with that volunteer work and enjoy it a lot...!...
