Lou, you make a good point about trying to consider others when making a choice, but being OK with not pleasing everyone. In the past, I lived like my happiness was dependent on my wife's. So even when I picked something I liked (thinking she would too) I wasn't even happy.
About pickiness, I think my wife, my children, and probably I, have all been expecting too much out of our selections. You know, if you don't like the restaurant today, you can pick another one tomorrow!
