MrsNOP,

Good catch. I was actually thinking about that this morning, but I never got further than "she doesn't know what she wants!"

And you're right about the divorce. She wants me to want what she wants.

I've seen this from her in several areas, down to picking a restaurant. I'll go back to the "you always give into me" comment here. I think she actually wants me to assert myself more, but not in the underhanded, make-her-think-i'm-doing-it-for-her ways I have in the past.

And I want the same from her. You should hear us trying to come to a decision. Both of us trying to choose what we think the other wants, and both of us resenting the other for not saying what they want. *sigh*