Mrs NOP wrote
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Not only does she want to do/say/be what she wants - she wants your approval/acceptance/support. And having the lack of that overt response is what is leaving her ticked.



This is interesting... this makes your W a perfect mirror image of you, Rig. She doesn't want to initiate the D because she doesn't want you to be mad at her. You don't want to resist the D because you don't want her to be mad at you. This is the definition of a totally fused, undifferentiated couple. Neither of you knows where you end and the other begins.

(Not throwing stones, Rig-- I struggle with this CONSTANTLY... phrasing stuff a certain way so my bf won't snap at me.)