So in that way, I mean D is actually silly, because she is not even doing what she wants for herself.

Sometimes when it becomes so obvious that your partner is not going to step up to the plate, divorce is what happens. Perhaps neither party truly wants it, but the status quo simply cannot continue.

I fully agree that Rigley needs to <seriously> address her concerns, really listen to her. I disagree that in the event she doesn't feel validated or heard, divorce is silly.

I'm sure you know where I'm coming from.


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne