I know what you're saying and I agree. What I was meaning was that while Rig needs to validate her frustration, I think he needs to rise above the idea of D and not give it the status of becoming a "pit." The only way to do this is to be honest and really hear her concerns, but also to realize what she really wants, which is validation, not D.
So in that way, I mean D is actually silly, because she is not even doing what she wants for herself.
