VLM wrote this on Loula's thread:
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I wanted to write that I completely understand everything you are going through, as I am a high-desire wife and well, right now, I'm on the verge of asking for a separation. Of course, I don't want to, but sometimes, I feel like that's the only way to get through to my husband is to threaten him with leaving, and I ABSOLUTELY HATE THAT.


Does this sound like something your W could have written?