I'm feeling upset. My husband and I have continued to talk on the phone. Things are going really well. He's been calling me affectionate nicknames. He's flirted with me a bit.
However, he's looking for a job that is not in the city I'm living in. When I asked him what he wanted to do, in regards to our future, he said that he wanted to get a good job and start making money...and THEN work on our marriage.
I don't understand. Why would he not look for a good paying job in my town? He asked me if he landed a job making tons of money, if I'd quit my current job and come live with him. I told him I wouldn't be comfortable doing that. When he asked why, I told him that I won't ever feel comfortable depending on him for my financial security. He said he understood and that he can see that I'd be scared that he'd walk again.
And then the next phone conversation, he's looking for a job elsewhere.
Is he testing me?
I'm quite confused. Like I said, things have been going well, in fact in that last phone conversation he asked me to call him later on in the week. He wanted to hear from me again!!
We already live one hour's drive apart from each other. Won't this make the chance that our relationship will work out a lot worse?
