I spoke to H last night. He asked if he could call me at work to set up our meeting. I am thrilled. This is a long distance call for him. It also means that he wasn't just buttering me up to get me to email him info. I emailed the info he requested and he's still wanting to hang out with me.
I'm also thrilled because this means he's going to take the iniative to contact me.
Ok...so, now I have a question for everyone. When you and your spouse began the reconciliation process, did they act friendly and as though 'dating' was a natural place for your relationship to be? I've had the impression that for many people the spouse who had left was reluctant to begin this process.
Is it common for the Walk Away Spouse to be friendly and happy about having a 'date' with the Left Spouse? Particulary when it's the first 'date'?
I'd really like to hear from people on their first steps on this path.