Can anyone tell me what I can do (while I am waiting for my local library to get in the books for me) to deal with the whole issue of trust.

I am finding this the most difficult thing to deal with. My H had 2 A's (one in 2002 and another one in 2006). After the first one, I thought I was doing ok. But now, after this second one I just don't even know where to begin. I know it will take time, but I need to know what I can do to help it along - I feel so lost

Please help - anyone?????

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)