Skicdy, It sounds like you have a goal (anger management), a plan (counseling and exercise), and it sounds like you've made significant progress. Your W has also noticed your progress.
You're concerned about the lack of physical and verbal intimacy. Has this been an ongoing problem, or a recent change? What do you think is keeping you two from being more intimate?
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."