Skicdy, I would say your're not in a great situation, but you have something to work with. What is she angry with you about? What are the unresolved issues in your M? What are you doing to manage your stress?
What you described regarding her behavior at the party is very positive--her sharing of affection with you. She can still care about you, yet be so angry with you that she wants to leave the R.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."