Sorry you are here, and I can feel your pain. I too have a lot of issues to work through, not just the A my H had. He is taking AD (high dose and the possibility of it increasing again - wait and see what the doc says), plus we are going for counselling, I am starting a new job next week, he is only working part-time (too much time on his hands - which scares me even more) and we just moved to a new city several months ago. All of this plus an A is enough to push anyone over the edge.
He too wants time alone to "work through things" and that is the hardest time for me because I wonder every single second what is he doing, who he is with etc. etc. It's torture but I have to try and put my mind on something else because no matter how much I worry, it isn't going to change what he is going to do. The only thing I can control right now is MY life, as difficult as it is at times.
I hope you can look inside yourself and find the strength to get through this. I know at times it seems as if there will never be an end to all the pain, but it will ease in time (I know because this is the second time I am going through it - and hopefully the last)
Hang in there ( which I know is easy for me to say) but it will ease in time. I can understand her frustration, bad enough the A, but financial issues alone can break a M.
My prayers are with you
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
