Jeff..first, thank you so much for your patience and involvement with my sitch.

Many of us get confronted with situations that are ugly. Our buttons get pushed. We get angry. Oftimes we'd like to give our S a 'piece of our minds'. What do we all tell each other here? Let it go.

A mature person would have accepted the earrings and said thank you.

A woman without issues would never have sent them back.

A woman who would have moved on would never have written such a hurtful note.

Jeff...stand back for a minute and do what you tell me. Remove yourself and look at this. What does it say?

Just keep being a great dad and stay the course Jeff. Your outlook on your M, your life is amazing. Not only that, you have a unique ability to look at the problems of two people and find answers and hope.

Stay the good dad that you are. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;