Again..I agree with BA...I think it is the motivation behind the giving of the gift. If he is really detached and DBing...the motivation wouldn't have been to get any kind of reaction from the gift. It seemed to me that he was expecting something and then had a hard time accepting her response, which seemed very straight forward. I think that what BA was saying, and what I am saying is that the anger at her response is totally uncalled for and that he has said that he was detached and had given it all up to God. Obviously, he hadn't as his reaction to her reaction showed. I also want to say that no one has said not to stand for his marriage...what I said, and what I think BA has said was that giving it up means giving up your own personal agenda and it sounds like that point may not have been reached.
