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I no longer NEED her; she is only a desire.



I think about this whenever I see someone say it around these boards. Did you NEED her when you got married and while you were married? Shouldn't she have been a desire during the whole M? For me, I did not NEED H when we met, I was doing just fine on my own thank you. H was someone that I desired to join me and become part of my life, and I wanted to join him and become part of his life.

Here's a little whine to go with your lobster and NY steak with FIB. (BTW, grass fed WI beef would be much better!) I loved waking up with H every day, rolling into him and snuggling and cuddling, or more... It's been a very long time since we've woke up in the same bed. Today I opened a fresh can of coffee and the old jingle popped into my head and I still can't knock it out...the best part of waking up is Folgers in your cup. OMG, the best part of my waking up now is COFFEE! all those flavored creamers really do entice the taste buds, but jeez, now that's my best part of waking up??! I would glady give up my need for coffee to fullfill my desire to wake up with H again.

My last thread locked up and so far I have no desire or time to start a new one yet, so I just threadjack around now and then.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.