Heywyre, just continue being as attractive as you can be. My W's biggest complaint about me in bed is that I was never interested in ML, which was not true. That was her thinking, and she even told me was a lousy job I did a few times before! Talk about killing a man's sense of being! Well, that hurt, so now I always initiate it because I think I might push her away in that arena. But she does dress sexually, just not too much that I raise my eyebrows at her. I was never that interested in ML with her until all of this happened. And I always wonder if I am "measuring up".
Quote: He has never responded to me being the assertive one so I know I have to just wait it out until he's ready. However, that scares me a little because the first thing I think is "if he takes too much time will that just drive him back to OW" - I have to get those thoughts out of my mind
Don't think about that. Think the opposite, and actions will follow. Do you remember what his turn ons about you were? Just wondering.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
