Personally Kirby, I think if both parties want to work on the M/R then you would be considered in piecing.

I can't see how you can piece something together if one is still destructive in the relationship

My opinion only of course

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)