Am I piecing? I am sooooo confused

[~Sol]

Hi Kirby,

That's a good question. I think that a S saying that they want to work on the M is definitely piecing material. However, I didn't get that from my W at first. It took an argument to figure out that she wanted to work on our R. She said, after the incident when I called the police and she told our tenant to move out, "If you want this R then you are going to have to trust me" - or something to that effect. Wel, if THAT wasn't direct enough...

Before this, she would ML on a few occasions, she would tell me to trust her about her recent trip with OM, she kept saying ILY when she left for work, and even told me she was making an effort after I would argue or lose trust in her when she saw me depressed. Even though she is saying she wants to work on the R (which is the big indicator), OM is still in the picture.

So it is hard, but I guess that's what piecing is.

Only you know if your W wants to start to piece the R, but it needs to be admitted by her and for both S's to commit to piecing. Hope this makes sense to us both.....and to you too Heywyre!!!