I didn't realize this was your second time going through this. I'm sorry for what happened. I don't think I could survive another one from my W. It's too hard. But enough of that thinking...
It kind of feels like we are starting over being on this thread, doesn't it? You are so fortunate that you and your H do not scream when you argue. I never got that from my W, she has this temper that makes me cringe, and when we do argue, I start thinking of just going through a D, but those are my emotions talking, and I do get hurt from that. Piecing is going to be very challenging for me. At least right now it seems that way.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~