I thought I should bring it up but refrained because my daughter and her bf were there and neither know about our sitch (so didn't want to burst her balloon about what H is actually like)
But I think I will talk to him about it this evening. Like you said - keep calm and don't sound like I am defensive (now if I could just convince my mouth of that - lol)
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)