Not feeling all that great today. Went to visit our daughter and thought I would have a good day, without any "thoughts" but it wasn't to be. We all went out to lunch together and H started flirting - with the waitress. Before you knew it, she was putting her hand on his shoulder, asking him how his meal, etc. etc. was - totally ignoring the rest of us - arrrrrrrrgh. Then, of course, the bill comes along and he wants to give her an "extra" tip - how about the tip of my boot??
I know I shouldn't get my knickers in a knot about it, after all, I was right there. But, it really bugs me when he does that. I know he probably doesn't mean it but when we went to the C, he told us we needed to set some boundaries and that is definitely one of mine. We are supposed to be respecting each other's boundaries - what the heck is his problem! H flirts ALL the time with other women - it bugs the crap out of me!
Should I say something? And, if I do, how do I approach it - I don't want to come across as being a whiner but at the same time, he needs to know that its a line he's crossed (yet again)
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
