Thanks Cat - your reassurance is always grateful. It's nice to have someone else's perspective on things to put them in order.

You are right, it wasn't my fault and I have every right to ask. After all, bottom line, I am bringing in more money right now than he is (not that it ever concerned me before) and I figure he was giving her MY money too so there!!!

Ok, got it all out of my system.

Also his cell phone bill comes in soon. I have mentioned it to him before about wanting to see it. He (once again) got defensive but said ok. However, I have decided that if and when it comes in and he hands it to me, I am just going to say "if there is something on there that I need to see, or you need to talk about, then I will look at it. Otherwise, it is in the past and let's just move on."

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)