yea, I hear you, got royally screwed over too because my H used to do the finances (I do them now).
I'd ask him if I were in your shoes, tell him exactly what and how you found out. No accusatory tones, just matter of factly, ask him what was up w/the 200$ withdrawal.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.