Ok - so here's a dilemma I am in. H takes care of all the finances (I know, BIG mistake). However, he has always been really good at it and, quite frankly, I prefer it that way (he's very meticulous). Unfortunately, that has also made it VERY easy for him to hide things (money spent on OW etc.)
The other day I put our joint chequing and savings accounts online so that I could keep track of my paycheques (new job) that are deposited directly
Well, two days ago, there was $200 taken out of the chequing account so I checked the reconciliation book that we have and H has it marked as withdrawal $200 - "my name"
Well, I know I never got it so where the hell is it going? I really don't want to confront him but on the other hand I know he was giving money to the OW for a while (she has kids and he felt sorry for her - ya right)
Should I wait a couple of days to see if he says anything? After all, if he was taking money from our chequing account for OW (which he didn't do before - he put it on his visa or something) wouldn't he want to be a little more discreet?
I am thinking maybe he's thinking about buying me something but he usually uses his visa and never carries cash.
I am going insane here and thought maybe someone out there could give me a clue as to how to approach this - its pretty obvious he took money out
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
