I have a smile on reading your post, i'm so glad things are turning up better these days
I'd be my right arm for my H to have interest in the library books I bring, he pretty much groans if I mention them. The only one he actually *gasp* liked and quoted was "men are from mars women are from venus", now he won't admit to it though . An awesome book you both can read together is "healing the hurt in your marriage" I highly recommend it.

I post a sec ago to someone else, who's H also asked "do you want me to do so and so?" and the person said "it is up to you". If a men is offering to do something is because he WANTS to do it, otherwise he wouldnt' bring it up, it is unappreciative to say in so many words "whatever". So next time you can always say yes w/a pleasant smile and that wouldnt' show you are too eager or anything.

Keep up the good work hon)))))


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.