Should I keep saying ILY even if he doesn't? I don't want him to think I am putting pressure on him but it is so hard not to say ILY when I really mean it

Suggestions?

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)