yes, we have set goals and they were both the same - take small steps in working towards rebuilding our marriage.

We are seeing a C and everything we need to do at this point. I don't know what the heck is happening. It was my idea to go to the other room but he is "ok with it" if that's what I want. It's NOT what I want but I can't lay beside a man that can say ILY. After I posted last night we had another long talk and he said that he does love me but has to sort out his feelings - what does that mean?

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)