Heywyre, It's hard to say where his head is at. I know you were hoping for more progress at this time.
If moving into a separate room is going to help you be more centered, then it's probably the right decision. Does he have an issue with you moving in there for now?
Practice self-care activities--exercise, social life, recreation, etc.. Practice whatever is going to help you feel stronger.
Read (or review) DR. There is a chapter on "cheeseless tunnels." We are to increase awareness of habitual patterns that fail to resolve R problems. Are you engaged in one of those patterns now?
Are you looking for positives? In DR, we're asked to "Know What You Want" from the R. Have you developed R goals? Are they positive, action-oriented, and small? These will help you to have realistic expectations of the R at this time. I'm wondering if your expectations are too high at this time.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
