Went to see the C today and he seemed quite pleased as to our progress over the past couple of weeks (as tough as it was). He told us we were both dealing with this very emotional issue "very maturely" which made us both feel good. He asked how we were doing that and we explained that we were trying to be rational and refused to yell and scream at each other - he almost couldn't believe it. Actually, it is something we have never done - too old and tired out maybe
We discussed some of the things we had been talking about together over the past week and the C was very impressed and said "that is exactly what I've been wanting you to do - good for you"
Anyway, we both came away from there feeling pretty good but have some "homework" to do.
C wants us to talk about "the sacred waters in a marriage". I guess he wants us to talk about what each of us consider to be boundaries in a marriage, which might not necessarily be the same - which I never thought about
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
