Yes, I have begun to tell him that I appreciate the talks (knowing full well, like you said, he would rather eat a brick - I like that one ) and he seems to be more open with the conversations now, even saying they are helping him more
He told me he's felt stronger in the past couple of days, which is good because he was really down on himself. I don't condone one teensy little bit what he did but I did tell him that eventually he has to stop beating himself up if we are going to get through this
Once again - thanks guys, you are life savers (cherry ones - my favourite )
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
) and he seems to be more open with the conversations now, even saying they are helping him more 
