H has been trying to reassure me that we are working on things one day at a time (the reassurance is something I have needed and wasn't getting from him). I told him I know it seems repetitive but I need to hear it and he has complied. I also think he was avoiding saying it because it reminds him of how guilty he feels and tonight before he went to bed (he goes to bed early because he gets up at midnight to go to work) he said "I'm so sorry for the things I have done". I told him not to dwell on it and just get some rest.
I think that would be a baby step no? I sure hope so as it would make up for the lousy day I had yesterday for sure.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
