I think at times he is just waiting for that typical explosion that he would have gotten from me month ago when he does something stupid. But guess what???? He doesn't get the explosion. I just say "Ok" or "that's fine." But not in a sarcastic way either.
I started reading a really good book on the flight here (las Vegas) It is Torn Asunder by Carder. Great book. I don't usually read on planes but I just couldn't put it down. I know, I should be reading DR but I didn't want a target sign on my forehead when everyone was looking at what I was reading.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."