I think I am going to just hold off on contacting him. I want him to realize what he has done and be the one to apologize. I am heading to MC in a few but will try to steer clear of my cell for a while. I just think it is more important for him to realize what he is doing than for me to point it out. That may just come acrossed as the controlling person that I am trying to destroy in myself.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."