Do I say anything to him about it if he shows up tonight? Do you think it will do any good?
I have continued to tell him ILY. That is one thing that I can't cut out. We both slacked off in that regards. I think that is one of the reasons that he ventured off. I asked him last night if it bothered him that I tell him ILY and he said "No, that is fine." But he said it while walking out the door. Do I believe him? Do you have any insight into whether he is bothered by it or does he need to hear it? Not that I am going to stop saying it unless he asks me to.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
