I feel you pain with that one sister. However they both will have to face reality eventually. No matter if they like it or not. However, I truly understand the not being able to compete feeling. I feel the exact same way.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."