To be honest, I feel the same. I know that I have great characteristics and qualities. Just don't know where to go from here. I am still reading DR so maybe I haven't gotten far enough in the book to know where to go from here. I am going to sit here and do some online bible reading and say my daily prayers for H.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."