I will keep to myself. Even though I don't lie to him, there are some things that I don't tell him unless absolutely necessary. It doesn't mean that I am hiding things from him, it is just that there are things that I know wouldn't help the sitch if he knew. Ok...this also does not mean that I have some deep dark secret from him. Just take the individual checking account that I have set up. I am not going to tell him this because that could very well put a final nail in our M coffin. It is something that he doesn't need to know at this time. When he returns, if need be, then I will tell him.
Ok the short of it....I won't tell him that you have said anything to me.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
