I know now about the control thing. That is one area that I am trying so hard to work on. It really is coming along if I do say so myself. When he does come over, he tells me that he has to leave or has to go somewhere and then he will look at me and say "is that ok?" I look at him and just say, "that is fine, why wouldn't it be?" So I know that he is starting to see some of those things.
I will continue working on it. I just had to be controlling because I never saw him take control of anything. But that is in the past. This is the new me.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
