Well, I got a nice little surprise last night. My cell rang at 10pm last night and it was H. He and a friend had gone to a basketball game and he was calling me because they had just got out of the arena. He was telling me that they spent the last qtr sitting 13 rows from the floor behind one of the team benches. He seemed really excited. I told him that I was glad that he had a good time and he said that they did. They were going to go grab a bite to eat before they headed back to the hotel. He was telling me about some of the players heights and I was confirming what he was telling me. Something that I didn't do so well before. I told him again that I was glad that he had a good time and to be careful on their way home. He told me ok and that he would call me today.
Those are the little things that I keep in my head as positives. Even though he may have called OW before or after he talked to me, it was the fact that he even called me to tell me how much fun they had. All I know is that I have to keep staying supportive and loving. He will see that he can have those things with me that he thinks were missing....the reasons that he may be with OW. He will realize that he doesn't need her. He can have the great M with me and be with the kids. I have to stay focused on this! I may sound too optimistic but that is all I have right now.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
