I will keep the faith and stay kind to him. We actually had a good time on Sunday evening when he came over. He sat and watched Q and I play some games and he was joking with us the whole time. He sat in the play room with A while she played with some toys and even helped us load up the kids to go out to church for little while. I keep working on him but without the R talk.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."