I just wanted to share a prayer that I have been praying over my H daily. It is good for all of the wives that need a good prayer in their situations. I really don't know where this came from. I just found it at my house one day. I guess someone gave it to me for a reason.
LIFTING MY HUSBAND THROUGH PRAYER "Lord, I lift my husband to you today and pray, according to your word, that: * You give him strength to lead, time to know his family, and a passion to manage his home. * You bless his work and show him daily how to honor You in his attitude and spirit; confirm the work of his hands unto Your purpose. * He will be a wise steward of our finances and all we possess, remembering that all things are Yours and entrusted to us for Your purposes * He will love You will all his heart, soul, mind and strength and hate evil. * He will be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger. * You protect him physically, mentally and spiritually * You give him the desire to teach and model a godly lifestyle for his children. * You will instruct him and teach him in the way he should go; give him peace in the circumstances, and integrity in decisions he must face today. * He will meditate day and night on Your word, pray without ceasing and stay faithful to Christ to the end. * He will develop strong relationships with other godly men."
PRAYING FOR MYSELF AS A WIFE: "Make me my husband's helpmate, companion, champion, friend and support. Help me to create a peaceful, restful, safe place for him to come home to. Teach me how to take care of myself and stay attractive to him. Grow me into a creative and confident woman who is rich in mind, soul and spirit. Make me the kind of woman he can be proud to say is his wife. I lay all my expectations at Your cross. I release my husband from the burden of fulfilling me in areas where I should be looking to you. Help me to accept him the way he is and not try to change him....I leave any changing that needs to be done in Your hands, fully accepting that neither of us is perfect and never will be. Only You, Lord, are perfect and I look to You to perfect us. Teach me how to pray for my husband and make my prayers a true language of love."
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."