Thanks Cat for your reply and your prayers - I need all the help I can get these days
We had another talk last night and H reassured me he wants to work towards salvaging our M and that S is the last resort. H wants to try and salvage it by staying together and working towards that goal, while going to counselling. He said, "if it got to the point where we were ripping each other apart" then he thinks it would be a good idea to S, still with the goal of rebuilding. So I guess that is a very positive step at this point, as much as it seems almost unobtainable sometimes.
I know I have to try and resolve the trust issue foremost. That is something I will be talking to the pyschologist about this week
Thanks again for your support, it is much appreciated.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)