Cobra,

Christ Almighty man. I think I need to take Writing Compostion 873: How to talk to Cobra so that he uncerstands what you are saying.

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Even though you are dancing around stating how you really fell, and I'm sure how carefully edited your word to be sure they are politically correct,




LOL Are we projecting a little bit here? YOU may prefer bigger breasts, and YOU may prefer your W to have a tummy tuck, but that in no way bothers me. The funny thing is later you actually admit that if the EC was there, it wouldn't bother you so much. That is precisely the point I was making, and I don't think I sugar-coated it. If something is causing self-esteem problems that derail intimacy, then I feel like I should have the right to suggest a change. Preferably that change would come about in the form of the intimacy not being derailed, but if a boob job would make her "feel like a natural woman" (/sarcasm off) and thus be hot to trot, I'm all for it. But frankly, surgery is messy business. Anytime you cut someone open, there is a chance of complications. I don't care how low the percentages are. Think about how you would feel if your children became motherless because your W died on the operating table because you liked bigger boobs. I know, I know, life is risky. But there are some risks you need to evaluate more carefully if they are worth it or not. The risk of a car/plane accident while traveling on vacation is there, but there is a greater risk of having a crap life if you stay cooped up at home all the time. Again, not saying cosmetic surgery is to be avoided at all costs, you just need to weight the risks/benefits. As I see it, from your approach to the subject, your W might get the surgery and then resent you for it. Is that worth it?

Frankly if you REALLY REALLY want your W to have bigger boobs that is between you and her, and not really part of my question. I just wanted to get a feel from the ladies as to how a certain request might be received. How that request is delivered should it become something I want to do is another matter entirely.

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I'd like to seem a few more men step up to the plate and honestly state how they feel. Don't sugar coat it out of fear of being beaten up by the women.




OK. I honestly don't care about bigger boobs or a flat stomach, so long as it doesn't impair our SL, affection, or intimacy. I say that with no fear of repercussion. Are we clear?

Regards,
Chrome


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