LOL I was thinking about a drastic step my husband did. I had fallen into a mind set that I wasn't sexy. I use to dress in sweat pants almost all the time. Well, I had lost a bunch of weight being 45 pounds which put me in a size 4. My husband went and threw out all my sweat pants. Along with a couple shirts that he hated. He replaced them with some sexier clothes like a couple pairs of low rise jeans, sexier looking shirts and some heels. This sentiment reallt touched me that he went and looked and knew what size I wore. That he must find me sexy that he would pick these kind of clothes for me. Then when he commented how great I looked in the clothes I was beaming with pride. I was a little agitated at first about him throwing clothes away. But LOL it was so sweet when he handed me the gifts that had clothes.
LOL maybe you could throw out those old horrible shorts and tank tops.
Do you think maybe date night could work now that they are older? If she is the one bringing up the stomach thing there is another none evasive procedure out there to make the stomach look better. I think it is called thermal something. Basically like a wand instrument they use to roll over the belly area.
I know what it is like to be a mom and put the kid's first. I am guilty of that a lot.My family buys me gifts now instead of money because they know the money would be spent on the kid's. But lately I have found balance. I have found that taking time for myself really does make me an even better mom. I really really enjoy date nights now!
