The way you explained the not even showering part and stained jean shorts is pretty extreme and I can see where that could be irritating. I guess I was thinking along the lines of how my weekends sometimes are. I like to put on some sweats and give my face a breather from the make-up if I don't have anywhere to go. But I do showr everyday and do very much care about personal hygiene.
Cobra...
Could you maybe schedule a date night where she would have a great reason to dress up? Also I have a question have she ever looked really good to you and you made a comment about how sexy she looked? I am wondering if she has this same grossed out way of handling it even with you?
Let me also say I am not against plastic surgery. I will be honest I am scared of it. The pain, anesthesia, etc. But I am not against women getting it IF it is what they truely want and desire for themselves. I don't think anyone should be bullied into it. I also know as a woman I never would have expected child birth could do so much to your body. It can be a really hard thing for a woman to take. I know like a circumstance that happened with a friend of mine. She had 4 children and is very thinn. On the outside looks GREAT for a woman who had 4 kid's. But appaently her stomach is wrinkled and saggy some. She works out ALL the time and it has made no difference on her stomach at all. She could do crunch after crunch and nothing. It really btohers her but she is scared to death of surgery. I know it would kill her if her husband said get a tummy tuck or I just can't be attracted to you. because it is the one issue that bothers her the most about herself. She to doesn't like to take her shirt off.
Also maybe you could get her a make-over or something like that. Then make a great deal about how good she looks after. Maybe she just has a poor image about herself.
